Ndaona posachedwapa kuti anthu akuoneka kuti akulephera kukhala ndi zibwenzi. Chabwino, osalephera kukhala ndi zinthu. Iwo akuyenda mochititsa chidwi mu gawo la kukhala ndi zinthu. Ndi gawo losagwidwa lomwe likufunika ntchito.
Kwa iwo omwe akulingalira za izi, komabe, apa pali malangizo angapo.
Choyamba, dzifunseni kuti: Kodi ndine wofunika?
Khalani owona mtima. Mutha kuganiza kuti ndinu wofunikira, monga wina aliyense adaleredwa panthawi yodzilemekeza. Ndipo zedi, ndinu ofunikira, m'lingaliro lakuti tonsefe ndife ofunikira ndipo cosmos imayimba nyimbo yabwino pogwiritsa ntchito mawu zikwizikwi. Koma, mozama, kodi ndinu munthu wofunikira m'dziko?
Ngati mukukayika za izi, yang'anani chipinda chanu cha zikho. Ngati zikhozo zitaphimbidwa ndi fumbi ndipo makamaka kunena zinthu monga “kuchita nawo bwino mpira” komanso “anadya makrayoni ochepa kwambiri chaka chino ndikulowetsa imodzi yokha m’mphuno mwake, zomwe tonse tingavomereze kuti ndikusintha kwakukulu”, mutha kukhala otetezeka. Ngati, kumbali ina, mulibe chipinda chochitira zikho chifukwa mumayang'anira njira zaku America ku Afghanistan, simuli otetezeka.
Ngati ndinu munthu wofunika kwambiri padziko lonse lapansi, ndikulangiza mwamphamvu motsutsana ndi chibwenzi, ngati pazifukwa zenizeni. Popeza kuti mndandandawu uli ndi mutu wakuti “Mmene Mungakhalire ndi Nkhani Zachinsinsi,” zifukwa za makhalidwe abwino zinatsika m’basi malo asanu ndi limodzi kapena asanu ndi atatu apitawo. Koma, taonani, chinsinsi chokhala ndi zibwenzi popanda kugwidwa ndicho kukhala chosafunika kotero kuti palibe amene amamvetsera. Ndipo ngakhale pamenepo mutha kusiya Gmail yanu yotseguka.
Kodi mwakhazikika pa izi?
Chabwino, muli. Chabwino.
Osatumiza chilichonse chomwe chingafotokozedwe ngati "masamba 20,000 a maimelo okopana." Kunena zoona, sindikudziwa kuti izi zingachitike bwanji. Nthawi ina ndidatumiza wina yemwe anganene kuti "Masamba 6 opanda maimelo okondana kwambiri," ndipo tsopano George Lucas sandilola kuti nditseke mokwanira kuti ndiponye zolemba zanga za Star Wars VII kwa omwe adalowa m'malo mwa Disney.
Osatumiza imelo kapena uthenga womwe umafuna kuti muchotse kaye chovala. Ganizirani zomwe Anthony Weiner akadatha kupulumutsidwa ndi lamuloli. Lamuloli limalepheretsa mwachangu zithunzi zopanda pake komanso, zithunzi zodabwitsa za mapazi anu opanda nsapato. Chotsatira cha lamuloli ndi: Osatumiza imelo mukavula.
M'malo mwake, musatumize maimelo amtundu uliwonse. Nthawi iliyonse yomwe mukufuna kutumiza imelo ku gulu lina, ganizirani wantchito wa FBI dzina lake Carl yemwe sanakhalepo ndi nthawi yopita kunyumba kukasamba kwakanthawi chifukwa cha kafukufukuyu, ali ndi ndevu zazitali, ndipo "kunena zoona, akudwala ma shenanigans awa” akudziwerengera yekha mu ofesi yake, mokweza mwa apo ndi apo, ndikuusa moyo. Kulankhulana kokha ndi njiwa kapena kalata yolembedwa, yotumizidwa kwa munthu wina popanda kugwiritsa ntchito munthu wapakati, ndiyeno kuiwotcha winayo akuyang'ana.
Ganizilani mitu yankhani. Kodi muli ndi dzina lomaliza loseketsa? Kodi maverebu akukulumikizani inu ndi maverebu anu okondedwa ngati "ophatikizidwa ndi"? Ngati ndi choncho, ganiziraninso.
Osakumana komwe mungawonekere limodzi pagulu. Pakhoza kukhala makamera. Pambuyo pake, padzakhala zithunzi, ndipo aliyense adzaziloza mwachidziwitso ndikunena kuti amazikayikira nthawi zonse.
Musamakumane kulikonse komwe mungawonekere limodzi mwachinsinsi.Mafoni am'manja ali paliponse! Mutha kutsiriza mu chithunzithunzi wamba! Ndipo ganizirani za ma CCTV. Kumaneni m'malo otalikirana ndiukadaulo, nenani, Appalachian Trail. Kupatula osati Appalachian Trail, chifukwa imadzaza ndi mayanjano.
Tangoganizani, musamatumizirena uthenga uliwonse pakompyuta. Mauthenga ndi oyenera kutsatidwa ndikuwerengedwa. Palibe chitetezo pa intaneti! Osapusitsidwa ndi hubris!
Ngati mukufunadi kukhala ndi chibwenzi chotetezeka popanda mwayi wogwidwa, pali chinthu chimodzi chokha choti muchite: Osachita chibwenzi. Izi, moona, ndi njira yosavuta kwambiri, ndipo kuwonjezera pa kupewa zovuta zambiri, mudzasunga ulemu wa aliyense. Koma nzosavuta kunena kuposa kuchita.
