“Sindingavomereze kupatsidwa chilichonse. Osati ndalama, osati chakudya, palibe. Kodi ndikanakhala mwamuna wotani nditadyetsa banja langa limene sindinalipeze?” Ana ake ankafuna nsapato ndipo mkazi wake, monga iye mwini, ankafuna ntchito. Mawu ake anandikhudza mtima kwambiri, makamaka poganizira za chuma chimene chili ku US kwa anthu amene akufunika thandizo.
Ndinkafuna kudziwa zomwe ankafuna pa moyo wake watsopano wa malotowa. Iye anati, “M’bale weniweni.” Manja ake ankawoneka osaleza mtima kufuna kuyamba ntchito, ntchito iliyonse. "Ndimaphunzira tsiku lililonse, koma, simuyenera kulankhula Chingerezi kuti mukhale ndi ufulu wolimbana."
"Ufulu wolimbana?" Mwachidule chotere kunena mochuluka, mogwira mtima.
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Inali nthawi yomwe anthu osaphunzira, osadziwa koma oganiza bwino adapanga malo osayamikirika kwa othawa kwawo onse omwe adapeza nyumba ndi chiyembekezo ku United States pambuyo pa nkhondo ndi mikangano zidawatulutsa mnyumba zawo zokondedwa zomwe ndidakumana ndi alongo anga. ndi abale odziŵika monga Ahiska Turks, amene kukhalako sikunadziŵe kwa ine ndi mabwenzi anga ambiri a ku Turkey. Ena amawatcha ‘Anthu a ku Turkey a ku Russia,’ chifukwa chakuti amatha kulankhula Chiteki ndi Chirasha, ndipo amachokera m’madera osiyanasiyana m’dziko lomwe kale linali Soviet Union pambuyo pa zaka zambiri zankhanza, kusowa pokhala ndiponso kuthamangitsidwa m’dziko mokakamizidwa. Ahiska Turks akuwoneka kuti asunga chinenero chawo, miyambo ndi chikhalidwe chawo bwino kwambiri kuposa ena ambiri omwe ndimawadziwa. Amagwira ntchito molimbika, amalemekeza ndi kukonda banja, ndipo amanyadira “kufinya miyala kuti apeze madzi.”
Okalamba awo akupitirizabe kukhala ndi ulemu waukulu koposa m’banja lirilonse, akazi awo ndiwo osamalira ndi amayi abwino koposa, ndipo amuna awo amagwira ntchito mosatopa tsiku lililonse kuti abweretse chakudya kunyumba. Amanga mabizinesi, kukhala ndi, kubwereketsa ndi kuyendetsa magalimoto amalonda, ndipo amagula ndi kukonzanso nyumba kuwongolera ngakhale madera omwe ali ndi mavuto kwambiri mosasamala kanthu za komwe nyumba yawo yatsopano ili ku United States.
Ahiska Turks nthawi zambiri amakhala moyandikana kwambiri ndipo amapanga malo okongola okongoletsedwa ndi maluwa okongola kwambiri komanso kamangidwe kokoma. Ngakhale zomwe zikuwoneka ngati kugawanika kwachipembedzo ndi ndale komwe kwachitika posachedwa m'madera mwawo ndi othamangitsa mphamvu zaku Turkey, malingaliro a anthu amtundu wa Ahiska Turks ali pafupi kwambiri. Pamene wina ali ndi wachibale wodwala, wina aliyense amakhala wosamalira; ngati pali ukwati, aliyense amabwera atanyamula mphatso, mafuno abwino, kuseka ndi chikondwerero; ndipo, ngati wina akusowa thandizo, ndi cholinga cha anthu ammudzi kuthetsa vutoli popanda thandizo la "kunja". Ngati wina ali ndi galimoto, aliyense ali ndi ntchito ndi chakudya patebulo. Ngati wina ali ndi bizinesi, amaonetsetsa kuti walemba ntchito abale ndi alongo ake ndi kuwaphunzitsa maluso atsopano.
Achinyamata, okalamba, ophunzira kapena osauka: aliyense amagwira ntchito, amakhala, amaseka ndi kulira pamodzi m'madera a Ahiska Turk. Pali mikangano yambiri yokondana, kusagwirizana ndi kusiyana maganizo pakati pawo. Koma, nthawi zonse amawoneka kuti akupeza njira yobwerera kwa wina ndi mzake ndi mgwirizano wawo kuti akwaniritse cholinga chawo chimodzi: kukhala ndi moyo wolemekezeka ndi kumenyana molimbika kuti akwaniritse "ufulu wolimbana" mosasamala kanthu komwe kuli nyumba ... chifukwa amadziwa. pamene (osati ngati) akwaniritsa ufuluwo, ADZAPAMBANA kulimbana kumeneko.
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Pamene ndinalankhula ndi Engin, atate wachitsikana ku Dayton, Ohio, anali kufunafuna “ufulu wolimbana” womwewo. Zinanenedwa zambiri m'mawu awiriwa:
kuti kulingalira kuti kulimbana ndi mwayi ndi ufulu wopambana ...
kuti kuzindikira kuti kulimbana ndi njira yokhayo yokhalira moyo wolemekezeka, makamaka pamene muyenera kupeza nyumba yatsopano, kusiya zonse zomwe mukudziwa, muli nazo, ndipo mumakonda ...
kuti mukangogwira ntchito molimbika mokwanira kuti mupambane ufulu wolimbana, ndi nkhani yanthawi yake kuti khama lanu lipindule ...
Zomwe sindinaganizirepo nthawi yomweyo zidachokera kwa Engin mwiniwake:
“Pamene mukuvutika, nthawi zambiri sizikhala za ndalama zomwe mumapeza, chakudya chomwe mungaike patebulo, kapena mabizinesi atsopano omwe mungayambire popanda kanthu. Izi ndi zinthu zabwino, ndithudi. Koma kulimbana kumeneko kukutsegulirani zitseko zambiri. Mumakumana ndi anthu atsopano tsiku lililonse, mumaphunzira kuthana ndi zovuta zatsopano. Mumadzuka tsiku lililonse, ndikuzindikira kuti muli ndi moyo komanso kuti mutha kuyang'anira chilichonse chomwe chili m'mabuku a tsikulo. Munthu aliyense watsopano yemwe mumakumana naye, vuto lililonse lomwe mumalimbana nalo, ubale uliwonse womwe mumamanga panthawi yolimbana nawo ukhoza kusintha moyo wanu, moyo wa ana anu ndi ana awo. Ndichifukwa chake, kwa ife, 'America' ndiyabwino kwambiri!
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Kuyambira pamenepo Engin wapeza Chiphaso Chake Choyendetsa Malonda ndipo akugwira ntchito kukampani yomwe imayendetsedwa ndi Ahiska Turk ina. Engin ndi mkazi wake ali panjira yosunga ndi kugula galimoto yawo yamalonda.
Pa Sabata lokongola la Tsiku la Chikumbutso, ndikukudziwitsani za anthu olemekezeka a Ahiska Turks ndi nkhani yawo yaku America. Mumachita masamu.
